The Good Vegetarian House Guest






by Owen Jones


Becoming a vegetarian means a enormous lifestyle change for the majority of vegetarians and as we all know, lifestyle changes are the most difficult to make. Ceasing eating meat is as difficult for most people as is stopping smoking, ceasing drinking alcohol or taking more exercise. However, becoming a vegetarian does not just affect you, it also affects all your friends and family.

It does get easier as you get more experienced at eating alternatives and countering individuals who disagree with you, but it can get hard in the beginning. The most difficult situations that you find yourself in regularly are: dining out with friends; going to parties and being a house guest. Perhaps being a house guest is the hardest, if your host is not a vegetarian, so this piece is about how to be a good vegetarian house guest.

If you eat eggs, cheese and fish and drink milk, then you will not be so much of a problem to your host, but if you do not eat those things either then you will have to work harder at how to be a good vegetarian house guest. The first thing to do is make your host conscious of the fact that you are a vegetarian (and what type of vegetarian) as early as you can.

You should not feel guilty about being a vegetarian. After all, if you had an allergy you would not feel ashamed and you would mention it to your host without reluctance. It should not be a problem, most individuals have a friend or two who is a vegetarian and anyway, your hosts will want you to enjoy your vacation, so they will do everything they can to satisfy your dietary needs.

You ought to discuss what you can and cannot eat with your host as soon as you can after you receive your invitation. You may be able to help your hosts plan the meals or you might be able to give suggestions as to what you can eat for breakfast and what you can have as snacks. Vegetarian sandwiches are a fantastic snack which anyone can prepare without any problem.

There might be things that you like to eat or drink that a non-vegetarian would not be plausibly expected to have in the fridge. For instance, you might like soya milk or you may like a special spread. You cannot expect your host to have such things. It will go a long way to making your hosts feel more at ease with your diet and it will make your stay more enjoyable as well.

If you fancy helping entertain your hosts and other guests, you could offer to cook a vegetarian meal for everybody. This may be a great way of talking about your reasons for becoming a vegetarian and showing individuals how enjoyable vegetarian food can be.

It would also be a useful way to help your hosts with cooking for and entertaining everyone. The best way how to be a good vegetarian house guest is to muck in and try not to be a nuisance.




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